Relationship Red Flags for Teens

A one-hour, school-based workshop addressing misogyny,

coercive control and unhealthy relationship patterns

Young people are forming relationships earlier than ever before, yet many do so without a clear understanding of what a healthy relationship actually looks like. When there is no physical violence and no visible bruises, harmful dynamics such as control, manipulation, emotional pressure and coercive behaviour are often minimised, normalised or missed entirely.

This creates a serious safeguarding gap. Many teenagers struggle to recognise the difference between everyday conflict, unhealthy or toxic dynamics and emotionally abusive or controlling behaviour. In the context of rising misogyny, online influence and distorted relationship messaging, this lack of awareness places young people at increased emotional and psychological risk.

Relationship Red Flags for Teens is a one-hour, trauma-informed workshop designed specifically for delivery in schools. It provides clear, age-appropriate education that helps teenagers understand relationships through the lens of respect, consent, safety and equality.

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Relationship Red Flags for Teens

A one-hour, school-based workshop addressing misogyny,

coercive control and unhealthy relationship patterns

Young people are forming relationships earlier than ever before, yet many do so without a clear understanding of what a healthy relationship actually looks like. When there is no physical violence and no visible bruises, harmful dynamics such as control, manipulation, emotional pressure and coercive behaviour are often minimised, normalised or missed entirely.

This creates a serious safeguarding gap. Many teenagers struggle to recognise the difference between everyday conflict, unhealthy or toxic dynamics and emotionally abusive or controlling behaviour. In the context of rising misogyny, online influence and distorted relationship messaging, this lack of awareness places young people at increased emotional and psychological risk.

Relationship Red Flags for Teens is a one-hour, trauma-informed workshop designed specifically for delivery in schools. It provides clear, age-appropriate education that helps teenagers understand relationships through the lens of respect, consent, safety and equality.

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What's Included in the Workshop

Teenagers will learn through structured discussion, practical examples and relatable scenarios:

Clear explanations of what healthy relationships look like, including respect, choice, boundaries, and emotional safety.

Early warning signs of unhealthy, controlling or manipulative behaviour, even when there is no physical violence or visible harm.

How coercive control can show up in teenage relationships, including emotional pressure, guilt, jealousy, isolation and subtle manipulation.

The difference between normal disagreement, unhealthy or toxic dynamics and emotionally abusive behaviour.

How misogyny, peer culture and online narratives can influence beliefs about power, gender roles and entitlement in relationships.

The impact of unhealthy relationships on confidence, self-esteem, emotional wellbeing and decision-making.

How social media, messaging apps and digital spaces can be used to monitor, pressure, control or cross boundaries.

Practical tools for trusting instincts, recognising discomfort and understanding when something does not feel right.

Clear guidance on how and where to seek support, including how to talk to a trusted adult or teacher.

All content is delivered in a trauma-informed, non-shaming way that prioritises emotional safety while encouraging early awareness and help-seeking.